I updated. Saw my Sims were immediately playing and went, "Huh?" No prob, just paused and got things straightened out and my Sims doing what they were supposed to be doing. Got a few notices/chat messages and after my first bit of annoyance because it was visual clutter, enjoyed being able to respond to friend requests, or chat with folks I know from here who are on Sims3 forum. I prefer to only chat with folks from here because I "know" you guys, but since I don't know everyone's name there I wind up with folks I don't know. Usually this is ok. I always ask, "do I know you from Carl and Pam's Forum". Never hurts to plug this place! The chatting was nice, actually, and I think when you are just playing or maybe doing a dynasty it could be a lot of fun. I am in the middle of a challenge so can't really share what my Sims are up to.
I did not think I would like the social feature but I do. However, if my getting a badge or anything else is spamming people I will be very annoyed! I hate being spammed myself so am pretty sure it will irritate others. Thanks for the heads up on how to turn things off.
A good part of that social is you could be stuck for something, like can't find something you need, and could post a message and get an instant response.
The bad part is my game freezes and crashes very quickly. There is more lag. I can just imagine the nightmare it would be if I were playing in Union Cove! Ok, I know I need a new video card but this crashing after about 15 minutes of play was a bit much.
Since I'm really focused on my challenges right now I don't have time, (with a slow pc), to check out all the possible problems. I am so glad I have you guys to rely on! Thanks everybody for all the help you always share.