I think this speaks volumes about the integrity of the members of this community and the high standards we hold for ourselves and each other. That is the reason that I am so proud to be part of this forum.
I agree 100%! Even though you and I aren't moderators, we are still over the age of 18, and fairly tech savvy, and well experienced, and it is our responsibility to make sure, if any of our younger forum members choose to use any sort of game modification, they get the proper help they need, from experienced users like us. We should be setting an example for them. Some of the 18 and over forum members are also parents. Giving my help into what mods can help or hurt the game and what websites are inappropriate or not could make that forum member to a young child feel secure that their child won't get exposed. I would rather get banned from this community for posting an honest answer about what mods are out there and what websites are appropriate and what is not, than have the younger member not know what their doing, and casually googling "Sims 3 Mods" only to end up on an inappropriate website, and getting some sort of virus from that website.
Why not make this a rule? When helping with Tech issues, everyone should always suggest a mod free solution first?
That is a great solution. I still have the attitude, "if you don't want to use a mod, that's fine, mods aren't something to be thrown in your game casually..."
What made this forum the best, for me, was that mod discussion was not allowed, although I was aware that many people were using them. I feel this is better for the challenges that go on here.
The challenges will still require the game is 100% clean and mod free. I think not allowing this discussion hurt us. It brought us to shame (including me), turned our moderators into hypocrites by editing the posts and gave the 18 and older experienced mod users a sense of irresponsibility.
However, I realise that one or two (Esther) opposed to this will not alter anybody's opinions, especially as I am more of a lurker anyway. Although this probably will not be the case, I do worry that mod discussion will become more discussed in other threads too if it is allowed in one section of the forum, and that mods will be the main solution to bugs in the game.
I totally understand your concerned there, which will bring me to my suggestion of the rule. I think we need to have it include, "Do not casually discuss mods..."
This is probably just me being picky, though, at many people seem to be really happy with this change. It just seems really odd to be getting rid of such a well-established rule which made this forum completely family-friendly.
Like Nicky said, allowing mods will not make this forum less family friendly. To all forum members 18 and older that use game modification, it is our responsibility to make sure younger forum members not only do not take mods casually, but also make sure they don't run into a mod or website with adult content. To have them fend for themselves is unsafe and irresponsible on our part.
I'm sure any unsuitable Mods will not be allowed and that only trusted Mods and Makers will be discussed. Not only do so many people use Mods but it could be a real aid in discovering the reasons behind someones technical issues.
See this is where my only concern is. I'm really worried that we end up going from one extreme, "mods are bad" to another "mods are good." There should be a medium with this rule. Still keep in mind "do not use mods to break the T for teen rating," "mod's are very risky..." but with new rules like "all mods must have an actual source..." but still the good parts "yes mods can be helpful, and can really improve your game..." So in other words, instead of the rule "Do not discuss or share any links to mods.
Period!" It should be "Do not discuss or share links to any mods
casually." In other words, if you use a mod, you have to have the proper website. Basically I'm saying the rule should state: If you use a mod, you must provide a proper source.
As far as my use of Mods. I'm not using any and probably will not use any. Just because I don't feel comfortable taking that risk in my game.
I understand why you wouldn't want to use mods in your game. Mods, while they've given me improvement, are not something to be used in your game casually. In other words, you have to know the website and the creator. When we do change the rules, I think Carl should mention the statement I said above. If you want to use mods, that's your choice, but DO NOT TAKE MODS CASUALLY!
I think we really need to really let people know, if you chose to use mods, it's not something that you can throw in your game so casually, like a download from our Swap Shop. You need to follow the directions and understand what you're doing when using the mods.
I think saying "mods are bad" is misleading.