yes I am logged into the Sims 3 site the site even says that i have downloaded it before but it is not in my game or launcher
For the Sims 3 Store, if you've already purchased the item, you can download it again from your Purchase History on the Sims 3 site. When you purchase an item and attempt to download, exactly what happens? Try clearing your browser history, too. And try using a different browser. Google Chrome is what I use.