Thank you for all the kind comments!
Wow, I never expected my gnome graveyard to make such an impression! I've added about 10 more monuments since I took that screenshot, so now there are approx. 45 of them.
@kattiq - Pretty much all of Idelle's YA wardrobe is from Master Suite - every day top, formal gown, nightgown, athletic top, swimwear top, and hair. It really was quite a good investment.
About the whole nectar making vs. ghost hunting thing - I opted for ghost hunting originally for a couple of reasons: more black ops than nectar making, something to do during a boring stretch of the game. Unfortunately, Idelle's promotions are taking so long because she can't learn logic (it was Daniel's supermax skill) and there have been no black ops for either ghost hunting or nectar making (all her ops have been from her musical and athletic skills). I ended up switching to nectar making as a career and she maxed it on the first day by selling about half the nectar she made as a teen. Not too shabby!
Of course, now I have 11 more sim days of doing nothing but making sure she keeps her best friends...