I'm glad you're getting a new graphics card. Now you can marvel at the beauty of Sims 3.
But I do have to say this, now that I think about it. People on the other forum weren't being that rude. Most of them were saying that your graphics card couldn't handle the Sims 3 game anymore which was the case wasn't it? Since your friend is putting a better one in your computer. But anyway, like I said, glad you'll be able to enjoy the game better.
I understand what you're saying, but I think they were being rude - "Your computer must be crap" isn't exactly the sort of thing you'd say when you first meet someone.
@Esther
When I read the Halliwell's, I always look at the pictures, then I register my game used to look identical to that.
If you get a new graphics card, and an up-to-date one at that, your game will be able to handle awesome graphics! Mine can now handle Advanced Rendering, and a lot of sliders on high. (It's Radeon, if anybody's interested)