Can't help you on the "Great Kisser" thing. However, my sim's hisband is a reat kisser and when they "make-out", he gives short kisses. But, when I have her "make-out" with him, it seems to last for ever. So, I think the great kisser is a waste of time, she has "Master of Seduction", which works better! This is a man with "committment issues"; but all his wishes are to "wohoo with XX"; or even more strange "Have a baby with XXX".