I just read all 13 pages of this, laughing out loud and nodding for most of it. Many of these are largely the reason that I prefer to play with Free Will off.
There are still plenty of things that bug me without free will on, though. Memories, of course, is probably the main one (even though I've turned the notifications off, it's still a pain
). Another one that really, REALLY annoys me is the routing issues that are particularly prevalent in Pets. Whenever my sim wants to interact with her dog, be it rubbing his belly or praising/scolding, they apparently like to use the stairs a lot. If they're both in the same room downstairs, I'll instigate the interaction, then the dog and sim will both wander upstairs, stomp their feet in the 'I can't go there' dance, then both trawl back downstairs before finally completing the action. You were in the kitchen when I told you to do that, why did you need to spend 2 sim hours wandering about to find the best place to do it only to come back to the kitchen anyway?! Arrgh.
Also, celebrities. Period. I'm almost tempted to uninstall LN because of it. I hate that there's not really any way to avoid getting at least one star by some point in your sim's lifespan, and I hate even more that you can't sort of 'opt out' of being a celeb. And let's not talk about the fifty million phone calls asking you to 'befriend so and so', 'work out for 4 hours' or 'eat at the Bistro'. GO AWAY.