I'm not really understanding the tombstone thing. Possibly my question was answered, but I only read through the first ten or so pages of this thread. I'm considering trying this, and it would be my first legacy (dynasty).
I play Hidden Springs, so I'd like to get Ella Carlisle and Sebastian Vanderburg together to start. So in order to have their child move out, one of them would have to die first? And the child must be born in the first ten days? As they are both Young Adults, wouldn't the child be older than an Adult before one of them dies?
Also, I'd have Ella move into the castle, and Renauld and Caterina already have tons of friends (I think). Would that count toward the friendship tally or does it have to be the parents of the heir?