Hi Everyone,
I have been reading posts here and the problems I am experiencing are probably similar to what others record, however when people talk about mods and computer techs my eyes begin to glaze over because i need A-Z peel an apple on what to do. -)
I have Sims 3 and ambitions and despite a couple of glitches I managed to play those two games okay.
Last week i downloaded Late night and OMG i have never experienced so many problems.

My computer is brand new and up to spec for Sims 3 games and I only have windows 7 premium, microsoft office and these 3 Sims games downloaded. I play on medium settings and never had any problem till now.
I began with one female Sim in late night and turned her into a vampire, my first problem was her living in an apartment where she could not play any instruments at all in that apartment. So I moved her to one of the houses over the bridge on the outskirts and things seemed okay for a while. She married a human and had her first vampire baby.
Then I called for a butler! It seemed that this is what made all my Sims become stuck on beds, my game started to freeze constantly and I noticed no mail or newspapers being delivered. By the time I realized it was the butlers, I had already dismissed and reinstated them several times but the freezing and glitching got worse. So I dismiss the last butler and moved the family to another house, hoping that this would solve the problem. I did not call for any further services and made sure I never needed a babysitter either.
Things were okay for a while. I threw parties and had guests over to the new house, which never seemed to be a problem until my Sim has twins. The freezing and glitching starts again and I have to reset Sims over and over, change the beds on a daily basis, etc, but are still Sims freezing and getting stuck.
This time I don't understand because I have not had a butler/maid/babysitter in the house. I figure it may be the babies, so instead of having the pleasure of bringing them up, I cheat them to older schoolchildren. Then, when they go to school, they walk straight back out again, and no matter what I do I cannot get that problem to go away. So I cheat them up to young adults so they don't need school, and I work on the family becoming a band together.
The 2 twins are now at young adult stage and all maxed their skills to 10 within 2 Min's (our time) of starting to learn. There is still no mail or bills being delivered etc, they all still get stuck in bed no matter how many times I change the beds. If they have a visitor to the lot, I make sure all guests are asked to leave because I read somewhere invisible Sims still remaining on the lot can cause these problems.
Then there were no mixolologists on duty when I visited the clubs, so I had to replace all the juice bars to get the mixologists back. However, at Eugi's a Sim (NPC) is stuck in the lift and I used reset Sim to get him out so i can replace the lift. It is not working, so I just don't go there anymore.
Also sometimes the lights or strobes already in the family property at time of purchase cause my whole screen to continually go around in circles if switched on. So I have had to remove and delete all of these on the family lot to stop this happening.
Should I be having so many problems here? I cant blame my computer because it's less than a week old. I downloaded all my games from EA, and the only problem I have is that windows sometimes says the launcher has stopped working then loads everything and the game anyway. I don't have any CC other than what's in the games themselves or have bought from the exchange.
I read somewhere that if you move, you should bulldoze the lot. But if I do that, how do I replace a property on that lot since that style house does not show up on my available lots/houses in edit town? At this rate I would have to kick out everyone out in most of the properties just to get a few days game play before it starts glitching all over again? That would sure reduce the population even further.
There is never anyone at the hotspot clubs, and I have tried searching the town as I heard they got stuck in certain locations but could not find any groups that looked like they were stuck. My sim is a celeb 5 now but because there is no one around anymore there is very little celeb play.
At the moment I have to make sure my Sims don't try and go to bed, i search all night for a club with some Sims in it, they have maxed out there skills because of a glitch that gets them to ten within a few minutes and its really ruining a game. I looked forward to owning and playing it so much, but I am tearing my hair out at the moment as I just cannot play the game. So if someone could suggest anything I could try (baby steps please-) It would be so much appreciated.
Also I have a question about hunting: on the odd occasion I have found a group of sims dancing in the grind club, but if I tell her to hunt they all rush out of the club. When I have managed to find a sim and tell them to drink from them they always say no? I have only found the odd sim at night walking the street where i have been able to befriend them and occasionally got a drink that way, but the whole hunting process like this is way too time consuming because of lack of sims around. Is it supposed to be this way?
Also if I start a new game, will I be able to keep this family that I have spent so much time on? And will they be able to keep their celeb status and all their belongings/friends/skills/etc? I am just not sure how to do this as I have never encountered this before.
Also why do the apartment and community buildings show up in edit town but none of the houses?
Sorry the post is so long, but I hope you can help me with this.
I just want to play this game properly and have a good time with it

Warm Regards,
Dawn