She's very frustrated. Basically if it's in a .sims3pack file. It will download, install, but not show up in the game. I've read this story over and over so many have had it. I don't have a clue how to fix it.
You'll be surprised, but I am having the same problem with Riverview and a bunch of clothing. It's probably because I have LOTS of other official custom content in my game (mostly free items
). I had no problem with Barnacle Bay, though, but the fact that I installed it earlier than trying Riverview, is the case. Although, I've not been impressed by this town. Just a nice town, nothing special, of course, except of the Pirate's Hideaway and the Caliente household. So Tears of Jade hasn't lost much.