Salty, maybe I can help on the twin things. I have twins in my dynasty too. My twin will die before your twin cause mine is almost an elder. They are adorable and this may sound cold, but I'm trying to distance myself from her. Don't get me wrong, I love Melinda but knowing she's going to die I try not to think about it too much. Anyways, maybe after she goes I'll be better able to help you with how to deal with it! They are beautiful girls!!