I took Nolan's words to heart and checked out wedding gowns immediately.
There weren't as many to choose from with me expecting, but I found one that was perfect.
Then we set up a small wedding area with only an arch for now.
I'm not considering it a farm expansion because, well, it's not.
Farm expansions to me, and the rest of the family, mean something that brings in income for the farm.
So this is a 'just because' item. As mom said with a laugh, 'Just because we want it and can afford it!'
A small luxury that she's considering a gift to Nolan and me.
And Nolan got it set up just in time too, as guests had already started arriving.
Then when I saw this new stereo in the entryway, I couldn't help dancing.
I may not be a party animal like mom, but music always makes me want to dance, so I must have picked up a little of her trait.
Then Nolan and I stood together under the arch with all our family and friends gathered around us.
Everyone looked so nice in their formalwear, especially Nolan, but my thoughts were on our baby.
I silently reassured our little one that mommy's nervousness was just because it was the special moment that her/his father and I were pledging ourselves to one another, 'from this day forward'.
Then it was time to say those words aloud as Nolan and I exchanged rings.
We kept our vows simple and sweet.
Nolan said, "Receive and wear this ring as a symbol of my trust, my respect and my love for you."
And I repeated it back to him, "Receive and wear this ring as a symbol of my trust, my respect and my love for you."
Then together we said, "This circle will now seal the vows of our marriage and will symbolize the purity and endlessness of our love, from this day forward until death do us part."
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Then we kissed for the first time as husband and wife, as rose petals were showered over us.
The love I felt for Nolan at that moment was so huge I thought my heart might burst.
Nolan must have felt the same way as he twirled me and dip kissed me right there in front of everyone!
Just like I had done with him after his proposal on the steps of City Hall.
I heard both dad and Carter say, "We'll make a romantic out of him yet!"
But I knew that even if we didn't carry the trait, Nolan and I were hopelessly in love and always would be.
Then it was time to cut the cake.
I shared a glance with Nolan that told me as full as my heart was today, it wouldn't even compare to how much our love would grow in the coming years.
Nolan let me do the cake cutting honors.
With my face lowered I could even hide the smile that had started when I noticed Mysti's formal dress.
I'd seen the exact same one when I was looking for my wedding gown.
So looks like I'm not the only one expecting a baby!
I grab my cake and join grandmother and Winter in the kitchen.
Grandmother tells me how beautiful I look and how much she's looking forward to her first great-grandchild.
I feel another surge of love as I realize that with my grandparents in town, this new little one will be loved by three generations of Swansons!
In the morning I eagerly chat with Autumn about the coming baby, telling her I'm hoping for a boy.
One that looks just like his daddy!
Winter chimes in asking what if it's a girl.
I laugh and say, well, it'll be one or the other, and loved either way.
Then Autumn shyly asks if she can feel my tummy.
And when her hand jumps at the baby's kick, she looks at me with such awe, I know I've got a live-in baby sitter!
And feeling that kick, knowing there's a little one in there, Autumn can't resist chatting away.
Telling him/her that they'll get to play with blocks, learn songs on the xylophone, and read stories together.
Just like our mom and dad did with us.
Except this little one will have plenty of aunts in addition to grandparents and great-grandparents!
After a shower, change of clothes, and some breakfast, I take care of another chore.
Paying the bills.
I'm not the only one who can do this of course, but it's the first time I've done it, so it was a big deal.
Made me feel more grown up I guess.
Although, now that I'm married and expecting a baby, I should feel grown-up!
Since we've still got the bulk of our lottery winnings as well as more harvest money coming in, paying the $416 simoleans that were due was no big deal.
But I realized that would have been a huge chunk of change when mom and dad were first starting out, so I'm determined to do things as frugally as possible, making sure other generations don't have to feel that same pinch.
I smile when I realize that I may not have the frugal trait, but dad and grandpa Swanson have certainly instilled the habit into all of us kids.
And mom too.
It was harder for her, giving up all those luxuries, but she managed it and she's shown us kids nothing but joy and happiness our entire lives.
That's what I want for my children too, for them to be happy with family, and the togetherness of that, not just focusing on things, possessions.
I'd been doing some pregnancy reading lately, and with a start I realize I'm a bit hungry.
So I grab one of the apples I'd stashed away for quick snacks.
I'd read that eating apples could sway the odds in favor of a boy, so I give it a shot.
Probably and old wives tale, but what could it hurt.
And even though the apple was just a great quality one, it tasted delicious!
So even if it doesn't do anything for the gender of the baby, at least I can feel good about eating a healthy, delicious snack.
I feel the rocking chair inside calling me, but I don't give in just yet.
Besides healthy snacks, I need exercise to keep me and the baby in tip top shape.
So I head for the garden and do some light work, picking out some weeds, harvesting a few items.
Mom tells me not to overdo and that there's plenty of family to help with our ever growing garden.
I glance around at it and feel such pride.
But dad reminds me that I haven't picked out my farm/garden expansion project yet.
He says I've got plenty of time, and maybe I should get off my feet and check some things out on the web while I'm resting.
That sounds like a great idea.
But when I get inside, I find Nolan working on the old 2nd hand computer dad picked up.
The things spewing smoke and I'm a bit concerned with Nolan holding that screwdriver and all.
But he's confident he can fix it with his handiness skills, so I leave him to it.
When I hear eager young voices behind me, I turn around and see that Rayne and Winter are home from school.
Rayne sets down to start on her homework, but Winter's brought a friend home, Michael Gallo, the fairy boy who she's been best friends with since grade school.
I know she wanted to go to prom with him, but Michael has an afterschool job and wasn't free to go.
So instead of finding another boy to go with, Winter decided to go by herself, with her sisters.
But if the look on Michael's face is anything to go by, he's very much into his best friend!
And he confirms it.
Winter asks him if she thinks their star signs are compatible and Michael says, star signs or not, she's beautiful!
The blush on my baby sister's cheeks tells me everything I need to know as I watch first love blossom right before my eyes.
I check on them a little later on and I see why Rayne was so eager to get her homework done.
Johnny's arrived and the two couples are so engrossed in each other that they don't even notice me.
I can't resist a quick photo as they hold hands and chat away, getting to know one another.
And by the end of the evening, Winter's asked Michael to be her boyfriend.
He said yes, of course!
And then all eyes fly to Flynn as he becomes an adult kitty!
But as I bend down to pet him, I grab my tummy as I'm hit with an excruciating pain.
Baby Swanson is on the way!
Journal entry or not, baby's take precedence!
Once I've got everything under control, I'll continue with my story.
Did you really think I'd leave everyone hanging like that!?!
After several moments of everyone panicking, then leaving me alone to finish the job, our daughter is born!
And she's beautiful, looking just like Nolan.
Welcome to Breeze Swanson, our friendly little girl, who loves the outdoors.
Now I really do have to end it, I have a baby to take care of.
Nolan and I got married.
Winter has a steady boyfriend, Michael Gallo.
And Nolan and I have started gen 2 with a beautiful daughter, Breeze.
Join me in Chapter 29: New Baby in the House
Coming soon.