@mrstank12 I am not blaming anyone for the bugs, merely posting what has helped me and other players in the past.
Sorry our suggestions have not helped you. But it is certainly not our responsibility to ensure the game is running well. That responsibility lies with Maxis and EA.
We are all simply fellow players who are trying to help each other to the best of our ability. With that said, It is an extremely buggy game. Most of the bugs will need a devs fix.
Having previously read the thread, no where do you tell us that you did a clean install of your operating system, so all our suggestions are guess work as you really haven't told us what you have tried or not tried in your process of describing the various bugs you are experiencing. Indeed until now you had not informed us what type of computer you were playing on.
You can always try making a bug report on the EA Mac Specific tech help board:
https://answers.ea.com/t5/Technical-Issues-Mac/bd-p/The-Sims-MacThis thread is now locked as it's not really going anywhere constructive. Please do not bash the Devs, staff or forum members for trying to help.