What I did is I had my chess player start a party and invite JUST the paparazzi person so she can't be distracted by anyone else. She's showed up to all parties so far in the past. I couldn't get her to come to places up town for more than 2 seconds and could NEVER get her to come to my house. Inviting her as the soul guest for the party worked. I hope this works for you as well! Good luck Chess players!