When my sims was a teenager, she became romantic interested with one guy, but now she is an adult, and I want to make her marry other guy, but there is one problem. First guy from school times is just stuck in teen age, also I don't know where he is, and his face in relationship category (in sims game) is not showing, it seems that he disappeared! What should I do, because I don't want to cheat on second guy.