Ok, I checked. I wasn't as stupid as I thought I was. I DID have a save that happened just before I did the wedding! May I go back to that save or do I have to start all over again? I was so close to finishing my founder up with the last bit being get married, have an heir and then two more parties, (after the wedding), and friends.
I am really am concerned about this mess up with weddings though. I've done several attempts at this dynasty challenge and it seems out of five tries I only managed one wedding that actually showed as being done and gold. The others had nothing even though all requirements were tallied off. What I have done consistently each time is get the bride and groom to an arch and immediately do the wedding vows. The music plays, kisses and confetti after the vows, guests all gathered around (usually in the way of good pictures), cut and share the cake, but it doesn't register as being completed, yet they are married.