So, to be absolutely clear, NO putting tombstones anywhere except on your own lot or in inventory. Right? I was wondering when I wrote my post if you were considering modifying the no editing rule to something like, "Exception: Lot.....(fill in the name of small, empty lot), may be used as a cemetery placing tombstones there is allowed but no other modifications".
No other modifications so folks aren't putting in napping or feeding things that could make it easier. For me, personally, it makes no difference since I will keep my tombstones in inventory. I hate dealing with ghosts.