Hi everyone. I just got back into the game and started my second try at this. The first one failed due to my stupidity as I used roses that the founder did not care for completely himself. I took some time off the game to try some other games and now I've started my second run. All was going great until my founder was about 10 days into his adult span. He had completed two aspirations, had his skills, rewards, parties and whims all done. Then I realized that he hadn't even stared a career yet and this isn't Sims 3 where I can max a career easily.
Oops.
So my founder, Lazarus Long, just got home from work where he hit level 10. His age bar is bubbling and I got the pop-up warning of imminent death. I had the ambrosia waiting. My hands were sweating and I was sitting on the edge of my seat up until the time he finished it. His family kept interrupting his meal and he would get up and walk around the table to sit closer. I would scream and cancel the interactions so he would eat.
Finally when his age bar reset, I saved the game and took a walk around the block to relax. I think I had the "very tense" mood going for the last hour or so.
My only advice: Plan your whole sim's life out and don't forget to keep checking back in on your plan!
I just needed to tell someone who would appreciate - my friends all think I'm crazy when I talk about my games. Thanks everyone!