Y'know, I have to honestly say that it's the most common starting point for a Sim family-The Young Adult phase. They've got so much to do, before I want them to settle down with a family, but they don't quite have the same...Er...Ambitions as I do, at first. Sure, they want a job, I'll get them a job...But throwing a party when you've got a level 2 in cooking, a sparsely decorated tiny house, and 50 simolians(simoleans?) in the free cash area, that's not too easy. I guess the next hardest would be childhood, if I'm trying to skillhbuild them. I feel awful when they get done their homework, and I gotta get them a quick meal and off to bed. Changing the sim lifespan to long helps, but it's still sad for me when I can't do what my sims want, in light of the goal I've set out for them.