Like Joria, I'm trying to love S4, and am also failing at it. I'm playing 3 different households right now (4 sisters; 2 roommates; a married couple). I'm finding the game to be very tedious, but I don't know if it's because I haven't played enough to really explore, or because I'm more involved in my 4x4 Dynasty right now. I will admit that the amount of time I've played S4 isn't worth the amount I paid for the game.
When I was talking with my niece, who loves S4, I told her that my huge problem seems to be that the needs decay superfast. My married couple just had twin daughters, whom I aged up because they are such ugly babies. And it seems like their daily routine consists of: Pee, shower, pee, eat, pee, go to school/work, come home, pee, eat dinner, pee, go to bed. I don't have time to work on their skills or their aspirations because of constantly low pee or sleep meters. The other day, the mother got up and started painting before work. I checked her right before it was time to leave for work, and her pee meter was (surprisingly!) still very high, like 3/4 filled. She walks out the door, goes into work-vanish mode, and her pee meter is suddenly red.
I also am having problems with build mode, I remodeled Crick Cabana for the roommates, and now most of the house has something that looks like a little flair jutting from the bottom of the house, but flattened (no foundations). I cannot delete these at all, and if I put the house on a foundation, the bathroom that doesn't have one doesn't develop one. (I can't post a picture right now, 'cause I'm at work.)
How do you tell the difference between a teen and an adult? I only figured out the romantic target was a teen when I realized I could tell he has only 2 traits. Whoops! Cradle robbing!
My niece's big problem is that the slim Sim females we both created turn into whales when they eat dinner. She sent me a screen shot of one of them being wooed, and my only response was, "is the sister pregnant or just fat?" She was just fat. Despite diets and exercise.
Um, what I do like? I guess that other Sims will show up in the world. And, um, emotional auras (though I don't like the emotion system either, strangely).
As I told my niece, "I think I just need to sit down for a few hours where I won't be distracted, and force myself to play and become more familiar with it." I'm just not certain I can actually do it - does anyone have any tips that might help?