I took my sim to one of the local hangouts and while I was there, one of the elder sims passed on.
Ok, well, now I know what the grim looks like. Grim decided to hangout and visit with the locals and I kept trying to go home and it said, cannot travel while there is a death. Thought is was kind of strange, until another elder passed, Now I know why Grim was hanging out.
I guess Grim felt it was two for one day.