Oh and also Jesirose, I can rotate my objects with my mouse, same as always in TS3, grab and drag around. The only thing I changed for my setup was the camera controls for Sims 3, and I have a 2 button / scroll wheel mouse, if that helps.
ETA: I just sent her off to work again, and no choices, so I think they have to be under duress to get the options?
ETA 2: Ok, final edit! If you look at the sim portrait at the bottom, there's a couple icon there while they are at work, click on that to get the options!