@Seabody, my comp is about 2 years or so old, Win 7/64, 15 gig RAM, GeForce 480, and 3.20 Gig CPU. Also, I didn't mean to sound like I was bashing EA. I guess I was just frustrated at the time. : /
@Dellena, this particular game is towards the end of a legacy. I'm on the 9th gen now. Also, the family is very big now plus 1 horse, the group science project, and they are on a 64x64 lot. I would like to say thanks for putting this into perspective for me. It must be the size of the family plus large objects plus the lot that is slowing everything down.