I seem to have the opposite problem of most people here: I'm the male who plays The Sims and can't get my girlfriend to try it.
She says she tried to play The Sims [1] back in the day and it drove her crazy. Recently, I tried playing The Sims also and I can see why she hated it! I much prefer The Sims 3...
Actually, to be fair, she did try The Sims 3 briefly, but it was mainly just because she wanted to see what my Sim version of her looked like.
She really only likes games with very simple interfaces and TS3 annoyed her because of the need to control the camera, etc...