I had always moved my sims in first too, before getting married and I read somewhere about getting married first, so I thought, shoot, I must have missed that. I too read the rules from top to bottom and did not see that they had to get married first. If that is the case, it is not a big deal. At this moment I am not really doing a story. I am like ratchie, maybe I am missing it, but I have read and reread it and cannot seem to locate where it states that.