Thanks, Pam and Metro.
Ok, here's where I stand at the moment. I have one foot wavering over the "do over" line, and one solidly planted, (but starting to wobble severely), over the "forget about it, no way you are starting over", line.
I've been doing my homework. I'm cursed/blessed with being a perfectionist. The reason my five star chef wannabe is struggling is because I really did not choose the right traits to make her zoom to the top in that career so she had all kinds of time and things to do with gardening and fishing and very little to do with cooking. She is close to aging to elder and needs to make that goal before then. She also has a hard time making friends. Only, she has this handsome and adorable son who is on the right track for some sort of artistic/music type career. There is so much open to him. At the moment he is a child and has Virtuoso, Artistic and Genius traits. He COULD go with Illustrative Writer, Movie Music Composer, (I hate the rock star track and prefer symphonic), or some sort of painting career. I've been watching him and he seems, on his own, to do the right and necessary things before things get critical. His parents will just stand around looking stupid as their bars go red. As a toddler he left his birthday party to go read. As a child he left his birthday party, didn't even eat a slice of cake, and started his first painting. So, I want some advice. I probably can finish her up in time, and if I don't it's a do-over anyway, but should I continue to take the time with this struggle, considering she has basically ruined two good career tracks, (fishing and gardening), or just bag it and build her the way I now believe she should go? Second place I need advice is with Justin. IF I stick with the current Winter Thyme, what do I do with Justin? I don't want to make it impossible for future immortals to be able to do their maxing/supermaxing thing. Is there something you can supermax that has totally nothing to do with any other skill or LTW, so I could possibly rescue someone further down the road?