Useful tips, thanks Seabody, the resetsim thing didn't occur to me but yes I can see the point as many townies have and use megaphones and you never know if somebody might be ranting somewhere.
I wish in some ways I had played around with it a little longer before I went back to my dynasty game, then I would never have let founders hubby play all those computer games and start this nerd invasion
It took 3 days for my teens to go from birthday to getting a new trait just from interacting with family, it's way too fast to level and impossible to decay unless they never speak to anybody ever again.
Which brings me to another question, how would I stand within the current rules if I removed Uni as it would remove those extra traits which we are not supposed to alter? I don't know perhaps I'm safer leaving things alone but I'm just not finding my family much fun right now because of this.