Sorry to post again, but I have another dynasty question/issue. My gen 3 heir Lily decided to marry a guy in China. When they married there, it didn't import him into the household. They had already tried for baby and I heard the chime. Strangely, when I tried to try for baby again, it was greyed out, saying there were too many sims in the household. It shouldn't have been, because he would be 7 and the baby they were trying for would make 8. I'm guessing that's why the try option was greyed out, because she was already pregnant, but not showing.
However, he isn't part of the household. I don't have the option to control him. I tried going home to see what would happen, and he didn't come along. It was just Lily and her grandfather, who went on the original trip. When I looked at the family tree, it shows her as married to him, but says his home is in China. Should I go back to a previous save, or try and continue from here? I'm wondering if he's going to take up a slot in my household even if he's not there. I guess technically he'd die before Gen 7 comes around anyway, but I'm wondering if I did some kind of crazy damage to my game/family tree with this foreign wedding.
All because I wanted to have Gen 4 have the hidden Chinese culture trait.
So, I guess my question is, should I go back to a previous save prior to the wedding, or see what happens if I continue?
Edit: I also thought of another potential solution. Could I play the game as is, and just invite him to visit and then have him move in, and see if that fixes the problem of the spouse not being in the house?