Yes, Pam, I have uninstalled and reinstalled everything TS3 related on the PC and the Mac more times than I have fingers to count them on since the first install of Generations on May 31. There are no solutions to my problems that I've been able to think of or find on the internet, short of throwing the game in the trash. Even that's not really a fix.
Tomorrow is always promised to be a better day so maybe Generations will magically fix itself while I sleep and the computers are turned off for the next 8-10 hours. A girl can always hope. If not well I have a Gothic house project to tackle, and perhaps a few others that I've had tabbed for months now, until the next patch comes out, hopefully this summer with the next SP. It's a game, it's supposed to be fun, this is not fun! At least, not by my definition of fun.
Thanks anyway for the suggestions, Pam, you're awesome and I know you're trying to help. This one is beyond help though, it seems. Good night.