I'm afraid I, too, am the same. I don't go on the site that much. Then when I get on there seeing 800+ friend requests I get tired. After about 3-5 declines I'm pretty much done. The official site needs to get a 'select all' or 'delete all' or something to that effect.
I only add forum family so it will take me a lifetime to sift through that. Just know that you are not forgotten, just lost in the abyss of strangers whome I've never heard of who want to be friends.
Why is it that we suddendly got swarmed with friend requests? Something to do with that Showtime EP right?