Yeah, that poor girl, I know exactly what that is like. Every computer I've had was meant with one thing in mind: Sims. And none of them have ever been right enough to play it properly. Had a first Dell desktop many years ago, when they were expensive, it would crash all the time, Sims 2 would only run after an hour of the system being up had passed, then it was 50/50 over whether it'd load the game. So for my 16th birthday my father got me a new Dell desktop, at the time it was over a thousand dollars, he customized it from the order page for me, it was the best. It ran Sims 2 great, then Sims 3 came out and I jumped on that. Several expansions and requirements changing later, it no longer wanted to play the game. Sometimes it just wouldn't load at all, other times it would and crash, and the glitches galore.
My Dad didn't want me to install Sims 3 on his new $900 Samsung laptop no matter how much I cried that the only reason I want a computer is for Sims, so once again for a birthday he bought me the current Gateway desktop I have now. It was a mid-range budget desktop, my Dad was now on disability and couldn't afford the best thing, but I picked it out, it was on sale and I was super excited about it. It was awesome at running my game for a while, on low settings of course.
I decided that I could buy a new graphics card and make it run more than on low. Totally pumped, I went to Best Buy and with the help of 2 guys from the computer section bought a 200 dollar graphics card and a good power supply/fan, whatever, to go with it. I told them my system, what its specs were, the brand, they assured me I'd be able to put the card and supply in it. Went home with them to install. On further research, and just from the look of the size of the new parts, I realized my tower was slimline. Returned the parts to Best Buy, brought my tower with me just to show them and ask if there was anything I could do at all, nope. He told me he wasn't sure why the 2 guys who helped me told me I could install the parts, because there was no way. It was too small. Defeated, I returned the parts and went back to playing on low with sometimes choppy performance.
Then I started to collect disability and got a fairly decent amount of money in back funds because of how long I should've been collecting it before, and I took some of that and bought a mid-range Samsung laptop, a little bit lower than what my parents had. That's what I have now. It's graphics card is integrated and only a small step up from the Gateway's card, it has less RAM, but a better CPU. Didn't really matter.
Long wall of TL;DR text later, now I have 2 computers that will run Sims 3 on low if I hope and pray really hard and the computer gods are kind to me on a given day, and now the desktop won't run Sims 4 even with its low requirements. I have much less money, because my father passed away and long story short they wouldn't give us his disability so mine pays for everything household and my stuff related.
I just want something that is going to let me play Sims 3 and Sims 4, with all the money I've put into them, and all the time and care. It's all a total bummer. And I no longer trust myself to make a decent system decision because of past experiences. Which is why I am being so needy.
Anyway, like I said a few posts above, I am now thinking more of replacing my desktop tower. Suggestions will be super appreciated if the two HP's aren't gonna be great. I've spent the past two weeks pouring over so many laptops and now desktops that it's all starting to run together in my brain.