Same here. I asked three times for a promotion and a raise from my founder's boss and I was best friends with them, had just a bit left in the green bar, and had the whole "boss thinks x is friendly" and STILL no promotion. What gives?!
Oh and just a funny thing. In my last dynasty save, every time I invited my boss over, they'd always be elders. Don't ask why, just every time my boss seemed to be an elder, except at the beginning of the game. Once I'm done asking them for a promotion(and failing), they would die right in front of me!
Literally the sparkles come and suddenly I have the Grim Reaper hovering over my front lawn? Is that natural?! It happened four times. Four bosses dying on my lawn...
I have no clue what's going on. Is my game just wired like that? If so, I'm not asking for promotions anymore!