Thanks ladies! You are super heroes, and we love you for it.
My kid visits here, fortunately we come together, I do the reading, and we aren't on late.
Again---I am so grateful for the safe, warm, caring environment of this forum, and feel outraged that anyone would violate that which we all hold so dear.
I'll check the Canadian laws on this tomorrow if no other Canadian/Ontarian does (almost time to meet real life school bus). Laws regarding children are fairly strict here, and if nothing else it starts a paper trail for later conviction. I think this is the forum where they should expect us to prosecute to the fullest extent of the law. I hope the perpetrator wasn't Canadian (if so: I'm a stay at home mom, with time to track them down to their lair, and ummmm, mess with their recycle bin, and have them pay very hefty environmental fines???)
Thanks again ladies for foiling the forum St.Valentines Day massacre.