I didn't know about the starving part till I just read this, I had a panic the other day when my self sim froze solid because I let her sleep outside a bit too long, the only person about to click on and ask for help was her evil teenage neighbour who had just got out a taxi across the road, do not ask an evil person to defrost you, they think about it but then decide it's more fun to watch you freeze.
Three times I asked him feeling sure she would die at any moment, he even started to play his guitar while she just laid there
But eventually he autonomously defrosted her. It would seem though she wasn't in any major peril till she got hungry from reading this.
I wouldn't mind but she usually marries him, It was a new game and they weren't romantic but I would hope if they were he wouldn't just leave her, guess i'll have to test that sometime with good guy back up just in case.