I highly recommend if you can, to use elixirs, my Sim has a boyfriend now because I used a jar of potent friendship on a Sim and romanced him. My Sim isn't doing to bad she has a tent, fire pit, laptop and MultiTab 6000. She has some money, not near §20,000.00, but I'm not sure I wanna quit at that level, it's really fun to play a homeless Sim.