I've noticed that we now have the option to "disable memories". But when I checked that option, the memory notifications started appearing on the screen every few seconds again, so I went back to turning off the memory notifications. At least that way I don't have to read about them. So I'm not sure what "disable memories" is supposed to do.
And the game that I just went into didn't load paused, even though I always save my game from the paused position. I'm hoping that's just because the game was saved before the patch, because having my games load in the paused state is something I've wished for ever since the beginning of Sims 3.