I have a Sim that I have targeted to be my Founder's spouse, and I'd like to have her move in as soon as possible. However, my Founder's Lifetime Wish is Heartbreaker. I know that I don't know need to complete the LTW for this dynasty, but that would be a quick way to get some of the rewards. Is it within the rules for the future spouse to move in, have the founder do his LTW, (which would obviously prevent him from marrying the spouse immediately) then have them be married, or must I hold off on moving her in until they are to be wed?