From the responses so far, it sounds like what we're going to do is let Sims decide regarding their romantic relationships. Works for me. I've already locked in Trisha's wish to get married because I would have felt like a real heel cancelling such a high-point wish. Especially when her daughter who referred her expressed a desire for her mother to start dating again - that pretty much makes it a treatment goal for Trisha! Now, I wonder if she'll find her soul mate.
The Treatment Centre almost came to a premature end this afternoon when I was playing. Sstarr has maximized the Handiness skill, and as soon as she and Incubus moved in, she wanted to do an upgrade. There are a lot of plumbing objects and appliances in the Centre, and it would certainly make life easier if they were upgraded. So Sstarr set to work upgrading the stove to produce better meals, while I supervised the residents getting up. Suddenly the camera swung over to this:
She was dead! Electrocuted while upgrading the stove. I sat in stunned silence. I've had lots of Sims do upgrades before and never had one die from a stove - in fact, I've had Sims electrocuted before without dying, as long as they didn't immediately start working on the same item again.
Carl's guide says:
Failing repairs on electronics can cause a Sim to die from electrocution. They don't usually die from the first shock, but the second is likely a sure kill. Handy Sims are immune to this, because they never fail repairs. Sims with high level handiness are also unlikely to die this way. The more complex the device, the more likely the Sim is to die from electroction. The cheapest tv is not as likely to cause death as the transporter lifetime reward, for example. So do some studying before you send your Sim to repair the plasma TV. To trigger this cause of death, get your Sim to repair or upgrade an electronic and get shocked, then immediately jump in to try and get shocked again.
So why??? It wasn't an electronic item, just a stove. She had level 10 Handiness. And she was only shocked once. And she's also Lucky, for all the good that did her.
I was wondering what to do, thinking it was all over. Then Grim appeared and Sstarr handed him a death flower I had forgotten she had - it appeared in her inventory one day, I assume she got it at work - and she was back! And I'm sorry, but I was too stunned to get any screenshots other than the one above that I took before I realized she was dead.
I wonder what kind of near-death experience an Insane Sim has? Especially when they die in what must be fairly unusual circumstances. Wow. Anyway, I'm glad she's back because I couldn't see the Treatment Centre going on without her. And I think I'll use Buydebug to get her a few more death flowers.