Hi Grim reader. Welcome to the forum! I've changed your second post color back to black as according to the forum rules that is the color you should use on flat text. You're most likely quite new to the forum so you may not knew this. If you take a look at the forum rules you will be a lot more wiser in no time.
Now, about the game grim reader: if all above doesn't work because you are way much too patched you could also choose to download a grim reader from the exchange but as you have said you are playing on the PS3 if I'm right I am unsure if you can even do that. Im a pc dude.
Good luck with it though! I remember an old moderator here who successfully got Grimmy into his house, married and got children with it. Course, the game got bucket, as there were no Grimmies who collected the dying sims bodies around the neighbourhood and you can imagine what a mesh it became after a while. So be careful.
I however, never came further then become Best Friends with Good old Grimmy in one of my test files. Obviously, that requires a lot of dead family members in a sins households and one sims who lives very; very long.