Oh My God!!! I think I finally found out what happened. Many of you will probably laugh at me which I probably deserve (and I don't know if it is note worth to post in your Tech problem stickies). As i said before these were the files I couldnt delete out of DEP
I have the following in my DEP list
Sims3Launcher.exe
Sims3Launcher.exe
TS3.exe
TS3EP01.exe
TS3EP02.exe
TS3EP03.exe
TS3EP04.exe
TS3EP05.exe
TS3SP01.exe
TS3SP02.exe
TS3SP03.exe
TS3SP04.exe
TS3W.exe
the last one TS3W.exe I want to keep but I cant delete any of these files at all.
Well I was looking around the forum while I was loading my games for the 8th time, when I decided to look at my DEP list again. It was really late for me and I was tried, and I went into The Sims 3 files in Computer/Window C/Progrgram Files (x86)/Origin Games/The Sims 3/Game/bin/The Sims 3/TSLHelper and saw this file (I was tired and thought ok, I need help and added it my DEP files thinking it couldnt get any worse). Well then I played around a little more with the files trying to delete them all and it dawned on me.. This file was the ONLY file deleted. Took my 2 more hours to put 2 and 2 together because I was so tired and still loading my games to try something else. As soon as all my games downloaded off Origin Launcher I realized.. the files I had on there were from games from my discs that I have packed away and can't find at the moment, and these files are listed totally seperate with a different way of listing DEP as well.
I can not delete the files still because I can not find my discs atm, but since I added the TS3W.exe from that location it adds it to my DEP list as "Sims 3" with nothing else typed. I thought they still needed the whole file name with the extension on there so I didn't realize I had been looking at my solution all this time.
I have been playing a test world for over a week in sim time now (could only play for 5 seconds before this) and other than slowing down and stopping every once in a while it works and I can play. I have missed my sims and cant wait to play my saved files if they can play now.
And finally to all the Carl and Pam's The Sims 3 Forum readers/helpers;
I wanted to take a moment to thank everyone that has spent time reading this post and my other post, trying to help me with this problem. It is the wierdiest thing I have ever gone thru to be honest. I assume many of you who are computer literate, can go thru this in your sleep, but it is a huge overwhelming chore for little old me lol (and scarey because I can see myself messing my computer up to the point I have to wipe my whole computer down (reformat is it called?) and try to reinstall windows, then whatever else I have collected over the years lol. I wish I was like you guys, I admire you all and well Thank you again!! And thank you for being patient with me.
Special thanks to MoonsAreBlue and Figwit