Welcome to the forum LadyKatherine. Yes, you really need to clarify for the readers exactly what you are asking, but the point is, the gender of the baby really makes no difference, since they can't carry on in the story. That is just the way it goes and unfortunately, we can't pick and choose the gender like in sims3. The children are just basically townies that never grow up, so to speak, lol. So, if this is a gripe, then it really does not need its own thread, but if you have a question that you want someone to answer, please fix it so we know what you are asking. Thanks.