Consider following the "Balloon lessons". They are basic, but they go over things, like the "Manage World View" & the "Live Mode". One of the very first things I do, is make a couple of meals, then throw them away. By then, you should level up, in cooking. Then cook a group meal. This should get your "Welcome Wagon" event off to a good start. "Call to Meal", should help you make a good impression, on your first social event, as long as there are enough places to sit. Good luck-a-roni.