Okay, so, I play with multiple houses in my game and I am at the point now in my game where the "original" sims whom were adults at the beginning (Mortimer, Katrina, etc.) are elders and they are nearing death at the same time. I know that if I am not playing the sim at the time of death then I will not get an urn/tombstone for them to come around as a ghost, which is what I want but I don't want to have one but miss out on the other since they are approaching death at the same time very soon. Is there any advice someone can give to help me out with this predicament?