Is there a mod to make your spouse not get upset about having an affair?

[Nerva]

Actually what I'm really looking for is a Reward you can earn that makes your Romantic Interests okay with you having multiple RI's at the same time.   I'm almost surprised it isn't in the game, considering they already have things like Above Reproach that reduce the consequences of cheating.

[Kathykins]

The only ones I can think of are No Jealousy and Stone hearted rewards. I'm not sure they would do what you want, though. Other than that, you could make sure your sim do romantic actions out of sight from everyone else, or rumours might fly to their spouse/partner. Sims are awefully interested in juicy gossip

[brappl]

Hello Nerva.  Not sure if you got an answer to your question from several weeks ago but I do see the question come up often so for other's looking for an answer, here are a couple of possibilities:

NRaas Retuner does not have a direct mod for Jealousy but there are settings for Accuse of Cheating, etc. From City Hall or a Computer>NRaas>Retuner>General>Social Interacions.

There is another mod over there that will disable jealousy completely or allow you to adjust the levels however due to the Teen Rating factor I do not believe I should be linking to that particular mod in this forum. There are more discussion threads in relation to multiple relationships and links available over at NRaas. I'd ask those questions over there in Chatterbox.