#1: Pets. I love animals, they just add so much enjoyment to the game (and RL). Also, Appaloosa Plains is a lovely town for the most part, IMO, the best of the "official" ones.
#2: Ambitions. Self-employment and the consignment store are a must for me, since I pretty much hate rabbit hole careers due to the fact that they take control away from me for the biggest part of the day; add sleeping, hygiene, travel times and other basic chores and there's barely any time to actually play such a Sim for fun.