Welcome to our Forum, Hope.
I understand that you're frustrated, but we have a rule against bashing Electronic Arts. Your post isn't harsh enough to be considered bashing, but it's coming close. So, please be aware of our rules and be cautious about what and how you express negative thoughts about EA.
Now, on to your specific issues. In your box that Sims 3 came in, was there a booklet or sheet that said you can register your game? Did it give you the sims3.com web address? I'm just trying to confirm that your game is meant to be registered. We don't have a lot of console players and I know it's different from the PC version in a lot of ways.
Have you actually been able to log in to your account on the Sims 3 site? How did you contact EA? Was it email? Live chat? I've had to contact them a number of times over the past 2 1/2 years and I've always gotten very good service.
I also read somewhere of a problem/glitch that EA said they couldn't do anything about and the person should search through forums. Huh? The developers are saying they can't fix their own game? I am rapidly becoming addicted and it's a bit troubling if the help from the developers is so bad.
I think I've read this same thing and might have been involved. Was it on our Forum that you saw it? If it's the one I'm thinking about, it was mostly a case of miscommunication and the EA representative didn't understand what the player was trying to say and vice versa. But no, the developers aren't saying they can't fix their own game.