Pianists

[Micler]

Hello! I hope this is the right section to post this in.

In my current game, in Barnacle Bay, I built a nightclub so that my fisherman-gardener-painter sim could actually meet a potential spouse. The first night I went to the club my sim began interacting with the Pianist. He has a full relationship bar with her, and they keep exchanging romantic interactions, however he doesn't have the option to propose going steady with her. Are playable sims not able to go-out with, and eventually marry, sims such as her?

[IloveLlamas]

How old is she? Also is your sim already in a relation ship? Thirdly what your your traits? And finnaly why am I asking these questions? Answer, because I need to know more details to tell what the problem is. One final note what does it say for what she thinks of him? It has to be extremaly irresistible.

[Micler]

I'm not sure how old she is. She is either a young-adult or an adult. No, my sim is not in a relationship. His traits are Loves the Outdoors, Artistic, Green Thumb, Angler, and Eco-Friendly . She thinks he is extremely irresistible.

[Schipperke]

Perhaps her traits have something to do with this.  If she has Commitment Issues, she will be less receptive to making a romantic commitment.  The only other thing I can think of is, where were you socializing with her?  If it was in her work setting, maybe that's the problem.  I'd try inviting her over to the house, and then just keep at it.  Sometimes it just takes a lot of romancing before a sim is ready to commit.

[Micler]

That might be the problem! If she has Commitment Issues, does it take longer for the "Propose Going Steady" interaction to pop-up? I was socializing with her at work, because that's really the only place she is for most of the day. I will try and invite her over in the morning, since she works from 2:00 P.M until 2:00 A.M.

Thanks for the input!

[Schipperke]

Sims with Commitment Issues can be very challenging to woo.  All I can think of, if that's the case, is to keep trying.  If the relationship is high enough, what I would probably do is ask the other sim to join the household then have her do the romantic interactions.  Sometimes it's easier that way, if your male sim isn't having any luck.

[Metropolis Man]

Micier, don't forget about the new Master of Seduction Lifetime Happiness Reward. At a cost of 15k points, it's a small price to pay and will make tough situations like yours a snap. Guaranteed to work!

[Micler]

Is the option to ask a sim to move in with you a friendly interaction or a romantic interaction?

@Metro- Oh, I forgot about that Lifetime Happiness Reward! I have used it before, but didn't think about it for this. Thanks.

[Swede1992]

Is the option to ask a sim to move in with you a friendly interaction or a romantic interaction?

Friendly. The romantic equivalent is marriage.

[Micler]

Oh, okay! I think the problem was that she was at her work, because I invited her over and the option appeared. They became engaged, but now I have another question. Can you ask your fiance to move in with you? He has been using friendly interactions, and they have a full relationship bar, however the option won't pop-up. I want to send them on a trip together so that they can have a wedding abroad.

[Saltypaws]

You have to just keep at the friendly interactions, with no romance interactions in between.  It should come up after about five friendly interactions.