I was reading some comments on No Jealousy and there were complaints that while you could kiss another woman in front of your wife/girlfriend without her caring, your wife will still get upset if she hears rumors that you're cheating on her. It occurs to me, isn't the rumor side of things addressed by Above Reproach? In other words, you need No Jealousy to be able to cheat in front of other romantic interests, but you need the Above Reproach to avoid rumors being spread by other people.
Is Above Reproach the only one that affects your reputation, and rumors are just a reflection of your reputation? So would it then be possible to take Above Reproach and not No Jealousy and even if you wife/girlfriend gets upset if she catches you, your reputation is still unaffected?