OMgoodness! A complete, exact, answer to my problems, unlike what you get on the "official" forum. THANK YOU!
Ok, first, I don't think it should be moved since it is directly related to ITF. I have no problems of this nature with any of my other games where I'm not trying to go into the future.
I have ALL expansion and stuff packs installed. I clean my cache files before each game play. I do not use any mods, never have, never will because at my age there is danger of not remembering to update them. I have no CC installed. I am fully updated on patches. I keep only one game in my Sims3 file and all others are removed to a separate file outside of the game on my desktop.
1. Ok, I could do that but I don't think it is the sunflower itself that is a problem as when I do different actions, like try to remove a dead plant, I get something like, "charge with love" when I'm not trying to do anything with or even near one of the ITF flowers. And, it's random. I've tried going back to the main menu without a save, then coming back and trying another gardening action. Sometimes the action is exactly what I want, for instance if I say, "harvest" my Sim does that, other times it is randomly weird like with the sunflowers or removing dead plants. However, it surely won't hurt to remove the composter etc. and reinstall.
2. I'll try that but it's been my experience to click on the song in the inventory so it can be learned. If you already KNOW the song, or you aren't at that level, "learn song" is greyed out. In this case it doesn't even appear.
3. Hmmm. I think I mispoke because LTR aren't in your inventory, (except for things like dusty old lamp, motive mobile, etc. which I didn't have), they are the rewards you get by accumulating points from completing opportunities. Things that missing are things like, steel bladder, hardly hungry, etc. So wouldn't evicting my family and then replacing them also remove those rewards?
4. I never thought of resetting Emit! I can try that. Or just cancel the opportunity do it over another time.
5. DUH! Of course. (face palm)
Thanks so much for your clear and helpful response! You have no idea how much I appreciate it. Cyber hugs!