My wife didn't move in

[riddler12]

Hey everyone. I'm fairly new to this website/forum, so HI! I have The Sims 3 for PS3, and I have a question that's really bugging me.

My sim, Steve, proposed to a resident of the town, Hannelore (she's not moved into my household, even though I've convinced her to break up with her old husband). That night, they tried for a baby and I heard the little noise that signals that she's pregnant. The next day, I tried to move her into my household but the option didn't come up. Steve and Hannelore were best friends before they got engaged. They married each other that day, but she didn't move into my house. I got a little message saying I've gotten 1000 Simoleons because of our marriage, but I still haven't gotten the option to ask her to move in. I thought it was because she was pregnant, and that may be the answer. She had the baby and then I found out she was pregnant AGAIN (she and Steve woohooed that night, but I don't know if she got pregnant by Steve or someone else, possibly her ex-husband who still lives with her). I don't know if she can't be pregnant to move in, or we're just not good enough friends. I mean, their relationship bar is filled all the way. I don't know what to do…

I'm not sure if this means anything too important, but Hannelore previously had a child (who's now a teen) that she had with her ex-husband before she and Steve met. Is it because the child is the ex-husband's kid so he won't be able to move away from his dad, which is preventing Hannelore from leaving her son and moving in with Steve?

Thanks anything is helpful and greatly appreciated.

[Stormi71]

I had this problem on the ps3 once, the only thing I could do to fix it was to use cheats to move the spouse into the house. The only problem with this is if you enable cheats on a game, you can't turn it off and you (from memory) don't get karma points or lifetime points etc.

[riddler12]

Oh, thank you! I think I'll just leave her out of the house, because I promised myself not to use any cheats  So does that also mean Steve's son won't move in either?

Thanks again! 

[Stormi71]

I'm not sure. The only other thing I can think of is use the friendly option and see if the "ask to move in" option comes up, so max out their friendship level and see if that comes up.

[riddler12]

Okay, I'll make sure to do that. Thanks!